Parenting Plans and Consent Orders – A workbook for parents

This workbook has been provided for your benefit and is not intended to be a substitute for legal advice. It is only intended to provide you with a guide to the issues that you should consider before you attempt mediation or enter into a Parenting Plan or Consent Orders.

Some of the questions in this workbook may not be relevant to your particular situation. If you cannot agree on some issues raised in this workbook, don’t let it get in the way of reaching an agreement on other parts. You can always leave some issues to be agreed later.

It is strongly recommended that before you sign any agreement in relation to your children that you obtain legal advice.

This booklet is not suitable for instances where there has been family violence or there is a risk to you or your children’s safety and wellbeing. If this applies to your situation or you have concerns about these issues please put down this booklet and seek legal advice.

Alaska Court System Model Parenting Agreement

This form was developed by a US superior court judge to help parents reach agreement on important issues concerning their children. It covers many issues that parents may not think about when making custody decisions. The form may be used in a divorce case, a dissolution, a custody case between unmarried parents, or an action to modify an existing custody order.

 

Model Shared Parenting Agreement

This is a model agreement.  While the Children’s Rights Council stand behind it as a fine standard for shared parenting, we legally cannot take responsibility for its use or misuse. As always, we reiterate that finding a good family attorney or trained and trusted mediator can be invaluable in fine-tuning legal agreements, even ones arrived at outside of the courtroom.

Appointment of an Enduring Guardian

nsw-planning-aheadOne way of planning for your own future is to appoint an enduring guardian. If you lose the capacity to make your own decisions, an enduring guardian can make non-finance based personal decisions on your behalf.

An Enduring Guardian can make decisions for you in areas such as accommodation, health and services, if you lose the capacity to make your own decisions at some time in the future. An Enduring Guardian cannot make decisions about your money or assets.

You can make an Enduring Power of Attorney  to appoint someone to manage your financial affairs.

John Citizen Enduring Power of Attorney

enduring-power-of-attorneyAn enduring power of attorney is a legal document which allows you
(the donor) to appoint a person or agency of your choice to make
financial and/or property decisions on your behalf. This person or
agency (the donee) becomes your attorney.

An enduring power of attorney cannot be used to appoint someone
to make personal, lifestyle or treatment (medical and health care)
decisions on your behalf. If you want to appoint someone to make
these kinds of decisions, you may want to make an enduring power
of guardianship.

A sole attorney is one person appointed as attorney.

Joint attorneys are two people appointed as attorney, who must act
together and agree on all decisions that are made.

Joint and several attorneys are two people appointed as attorney,
who can make decisions independently or together.

Basic Sample Will

American-Bar-AssociationThis is a generic and dated USA based Will that can still be used as the basis of a Will within any state in the USA. It can also be used as a starting point for a Will within Australia.

THE SEVEN ESSENTIALS OF A VALID WILL

To be valid, your will doesn’t have to conform to a specific formula. For example, in states
that recognize handwritten wills, some wills scrawled on the back of an envelope have stood up in court.

However, there are certain elements that usually must be present.

1. You must be of legal age to make a will. This is 18 in most states, but may be several years older or younger in some places–check with a lawyer if you need to know.

2. You must be of sound mind, which means that you should know you’re executing a will, know the general nature and extent of your property, and know the objects of your bounty, i.e. your spouse, descendants and other relatives that would ordinarily be expected to share in your estate. Although you do not have to be found mentally incompetent by a court for your will to be challenged on the grounds of incompetence, the law presumes that a testator was of sound mind, and the standard for proving otherwise is very high–much more than mere absent-mindedness or forgetfulness.

Because disgruntled relatives who want to challenge a will occasionally use this sound-mind requirement to attack the testator’s mental capacity, in special cases the execution of a will is sometimes videotaped and kept on file, so if someone raises a question after the testator dies, the videotape can be good evidence of testamentary capacity.

3. The will must have a substantive provision that disposes of property, and it must indicate your intent to make the document your final word on what happens to your property–that is, that you really intended it to be a will.

4. The will must be voluntarily signed by the testator, unless illness or accident or illiteracy prevents it, in which case you can direct that your lawyer or one of the witnesses sign for you. This requires a lawyer’s guidance, or at least knowledge of your state’s law, since an invalid signature could void a will.

5. Although oral wills are permitted in limited circumstances in some states, wills must usually be written and witnessed. The will scrawled on an envelope won’t work in these states. To be safe, don’t handwrite a will if you can avoid it.

6. Though some states do allow informal oral and written wills in certain circumstances, all states have standards for formal wills. Writing a formal will and following these standards helps assure that your wishes will be followed after your death. In almost all states, the signing of a formal will must be witnessed by at least two adults who understand what they are witnessing and are competent to testify in court. There have to be three in Vermont and New Hampshire, three plus a notary in Puerto Rico. In most states the witnesses have to be disinterested (i.e., not getting anything in your will). If they aren’t, you run the risk of voiding certain provisions in the will, opening it to challenge, or invalidating the entire
will.

7. A formal will must be properly executed, which means that it contains a statement at the end attesting that it is your will, the date and place of signing, and the fact that you signed it before witnesses, who then also signed it in your presence–and watched each other signing it. Most states allow so-called self-proving affidavits, which eliminate the necessity of having the witnesses testify that they witnessed the signing; the affidavit is proof enough. In other states, if the witnesses are dead or unavailable, the court may have to get someone else to verify the legitimacy of their signatures. If your will doesn’t meet these conditions, it might be disallowed by a court, and your estate would then be distributed according to a previous will or under your state’s intestacy laws.

Sample Pre Nuptial Agreement

This is a sample Australian pre-nuptial agreement created in Microsoft Powerpoint presumably for presentation purposes, and stored as a PDF file.

It makes references to family law amendments up to the year 2000, so it can be considered dated and not reliable on its own, but useful as a reference.